“Sometimes letting things go is an act of far greater power than defending or hanging on.” – Eckhart Tolle
Letting go is none but trusting yourself with your future. Trust yourself to deal with whatever challenges life throws in your way. When you let the other people go, you will self-dependent and you will able to do things what you want.
Why We Struggle to Let Go
Letting close people go can be hard because relationships often become deeply connected with our emotional well-being. Close people may represent shared experiences, comfort, and support. Losing them can get a feeling of abandonment, loneliness, or fear of change. Also letting go may feel like losing a part of yourself. It is normal for every human being but with the change in time and connecting with new people will forget all these sorrows.
The following are few helpful Ways to Let Go and Move On:
Holding someone is none but forgetting to believe in yourself; letting go and moving on is knowing in your heart that there’s a bright future ahead. Here are the eight ways to design your life after letting other people to go.
Try to Accept the truth and always be thankful
To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and helped you learn and grow. It’s the acceptance of everything you have, everything you once had, and the possibilities that lie ahead. It’s all about finding the strength to embrace life’s changes, to trust your intuition, to learn as you go, to realize that every experience has value, and to continue taking positive steps forward.
Keep Distance yourself for a while
Sometimes you need to take several steps back in order to gain clarity on a situation. The best way to do this is to simply take a break and explore something else for a while. Why? So, you can return to where you started and see things with a new set of eyes. And the people there may see you differently too. Returning where you started is entirely different than never leaving.
Always Focus only on what you can be change
Realize that not everything in life is meant to be modified or perfectly understood. Live, let go, learn what you can and don’t waste energy worrying about the things you can’t change. Focus exclusively on what you can change, and if you can’t change something you don’t like, change the way you think about it. Review your options and then re-frame what you don’t like into a starting point for achieving something better.
Claim ownership and full control of your life
No one else is responsible for you. You are in full control of your life so long as you claim it and own it. Through the grapevine, you may have learned that you should blame your parents, your teachers, your mentors, the education system, the government, etc. but never to blame yourself. Right? It’s never, ever your fault. Wrong it’s always your fault, because if you want to change, if you want to let go and move on with your life, you’re the only person who can make it happen.
Make Focus on Forward
It’s important to make a difference in the world. Yes, it’s important to help people, but you have to start with yourself. If you’re looking outside yourself to find where you fit in or how you can create an impact, stop and look inside yourself instead. Review who you already are, the lifestyle you’re currently living, and what makes you feel alive. Then nurture these things and make positive adjustments until your current life can no longer contain them, forcing you to grow and move beyond your current circumstances.
Make Connection with new people
Some people come into your life just to strengthen you, so you can move on without them. They are supposed to be part of your memory, not your destiny. The bottom line is that when you have to start compromising your happiness and your potential for the people around you, it’s time to change the people around you. It’s time to join local meet-ups, attend conferences, network online, and find a more supportive tribe.
Give yourself a chance
When life sets you up with a challenge, there’s a reason for it; it’s meant to test your courage and willingness to make a change and take a chance on something new. There’s no point in denying that things are different now, or being fearful of the next step. The challenge will not wait even if you hesitate. Life only moves in one direction forward. This challenge is your chance to let go of the old and make way for the new. Your destiny awaits your decision.
Try to Focus on today
You can decide right now that negative experiences from your past will not predict your future. Figure out what the next positive step is, no matter how small or difficult, and take it. Ultimately, the only thing you can ever really do is to keep moving forward. Take that leap without hesitation, without looking back. Simply forget the past, look straight ahead and forge toward the future.
So rather than worry about the future, trust yourself to deal with it. You always have done.
And when you stop worrying about your future, this frees your energy for other things. It’s like driving with your hand break off. Focus your energy on the present, and your future will take care of itself.
